When you get married you start a life together with someone else. You create common goals and align your path towards those goals. When you are facing problems, separation by itself will only drive the couple further apart. Each of you must be honest with yourselves and be very clear as to whether or not this separation is just a way of slowing down an inevitable divorce. Or is an absolute determined attempt to save the marriage.
Separations work only when there are very clear, very well defined boundaries for both people to abide by, and only when there is a counselor working with both couples throughout the process. It is most often only really necessary when there is physical or substance abuse involved. A vague, undefined separation demanded by one party is usually a sign that the person does not want to engage in any kind of healing, they simply want to withdraw and hope the other person gives up in the meantime. This video will reveal keys involved with how to save your marriage during separation.
Separations work only when there are very clear, very well defined boundaries for both people to abide by, and only when there is a counselor working with both couples throughout the process. It is most often only really necessary when there is physical or substance abuse involved. A vague, undefined separation demanded by one party is usually a sign that the person does not want to engage in any kind of healing, they simply want to withdraw and hope the other person gives up in the meantime. This video will reveal keys involved with how to save your marriage during separation.