First, you need to understand that you can not control another person's thoughts or emotions. He wants to divorce you. That means he really doesn’t want to live with you. And, if you try, the result of this is often resentment first and then a pulling away or ignoring what you have to say in the future. In essence, following them around and trying to "reason" with them or trying to "get them to see" things as you want them to see them only piles onto the already negative thoughts that they are feeling about you and the marriage.
So, in the video above, I'll offer advice on what to do when your husband says or insists the marriage is over, but you don't agree.