How to fix a broken marriage after cheating? Marriage is built on trust and faith in each other. The fact that you both contributed to the problems which you are experiencing just tells me that you are both human and these things happen often in many marriages. Most marriages have rough spots and rocky points but it does not mean things cannot be mended in some fashion if both parties are willing and able to work things out. This is the basis for restoring the marriage.
Are you willing to do what is necessary to repair the marriage and is she willing also? Do you still love her enough to do what is necessary to make the marriage work? Is she still in love with you to the same point? Then you must work together to fix what is wrong and go on with your lives and be happy in the process. You both need to go into it with new energy and a deeper love and appreciation for each other and please do not take each other for granted. Communicate with each other and don't let your feelings be misunderstood.
Are you willing to do what is necessary to repair the marriage and is she willing also? Do you still love her enough to do what is necessary to make the marriage work? Is she still in love with you to the same point? Then you must work together to fix what is wrong and go on with your lives and be happy in the process. You both need to go into it with new energy and a deeper love and appreciation for each other and please do not take each other for granted. Communicate with each other and don't let your feelings be misunderstood.